Friday, January 29, 2010

slow to fast

I recently noticed another thing about Christians in America that confuses me: Why don't we ever talk about fasting?

Of course, it was interaction with Christians NOT in America that made me realize this. The first week of the year, I was chatting with friends in Rwanda and learned that their pastor had called the church to a week of prayer and fasting. I gathered that the idea was to gain perspective and direction for the coming year, to devote the year to God's plan for each of them and seek what God might want to do in their lives.

I was shocked. Rwandans -- many of them, anyway -- are quite thin. I mean, in a country where there is some seriously inadequate nutritional intake, is fasting really necessary, or even advisable? And not eat a single thing for a week? And given how I feel after a few hours of not eating, does that mean everyone just sits on the ground, away from everyone else, for the entire time?

(And to answer, not everyone in the church was able to participate in the entire week of fasting, those that did generally ate a small meal each evening, people participated in normal daily activities, spent more time in prayer and, at least once, gathered together for prayer and worship before breaking their day of fasting with a small meal.)

Naturally, after the 'how' came the 'why'. For most of my life, I've always thought of fasting as "just something they did back then" and that people who do it now are either in the category of "super-spiritual" or "fruitcake". In recent years, that perception has been slowly changing, but in considering the role fasting might play in the life of a modern Christian in America, it's been hard to find answers as to why one would fast.

Why don't we ever talk about it?

Maybe its because fasting is very personal and, based on Matthew 6, should be private and kept secret.

But Matthew 6 also says that giving and prayer should be kept secret, and there are plenty of books and seminars and sermons on those topics.

Maybe its because Americans are less expressive and more private and don't want to share these kinds of things.

But then, how do you explain blogs and Facebook?

In truth, there are probably a hundred reasons why we don't talk about fasting, but my guess is that one of the primary ones is that Americans are slow to fast. Though I know there are Americans who do fast, it's simply not a very popular devotional activity.

Either way, my friends' example has challenged my faith; I'm asking questions about this practice that I've pretty well dismissed as weird my whole life. And I intend, here, to report some answers I've gotten...partly as a means of taking notes on the topic, and partly to prove myself wrong that nobody ever talks about fasting.

3 thoughts anyone?:

The Farmer's Wife said...

MY notion on why Americans don't fast is this: we are really close to worshiping food. How many food magazines can you find on Amazon in relation to "God" magazines?

Fasting is a private thing, but (please forgive me for this comment) so is using the bathroom. We had to have toilet training....I think we need fasting training, too. The thing about fasting is that it doesn't have to mean all means of nourishment...particularly for those who are diabetic or whose medicines require food lest they poison the person. Like you pointed out, it can mean two meals, with a humble third meal to maintain health.

Fasting is a physical manifestation of the Christian's total submission to God. Sometimes I think we are so stinking self absorbed and protective of our comfort that we don't even CONSIDER submitting, physically, to God. Shoot. We can't even figure out how to do it spiritually, really, most of the time.

When I was in high school...back in the stone ages....I remember that our youth group decided to fast once a week, at lunchtime, and meet at the sanctuary to pray. You remember how self-absorbed high school girls are? Well, I remember spending about 10 minutes in prayer about others and the other 20 minutes in prayer that I could eat RIGHT at 3:30 after the bell rang. But it stuck in my head, even years later, and it was a good thing. Fasting as a group was encouraging, not as weird to me as fasting alone. I prayed for my friends, they prayed for me, we hit the drugstore after school for banana splits.

Thanks for this topic to "chew on", Fontie. I'm curious to see what other readers have to say. Or, if it's just you and me, what else you've come up with.

Kim said...

As you know...this one has rolled around in my head as well. I like the Farmer's Wife's comment about how as a culture we worship food. Very true.

I think the only book I've read that deals a lot with fasting was A Hunger for God by John Piper. May want to give that a try. I look forward to 'watching' you process this.

As a completely unrelated aside, I just finished a book I think you'd like...it's called Radical Womanhood by Carolyn McCulley. She was a feminist who became a Christian and got her world view significantly adjusted. I have it, and if you decide you'd like to read it I'd be happy to drop it off sometime.

Michelle said...

Fun story about HS fasting, Mary --I think you're right that there is something special about fasting in a group...even if you're not together, just knowing other people are doing it too. A form of training wheels perhaps.

And I like what you said about fasting being complete submission. And food idolatry. And I'm as guilty on that as anyone.

And Kim, I'm so glad to hear your thoughts too because I think I first started asking questions about fasting when we read that book on...was it prayer?...in small group. Might have to check out that Piper book...and

...funnily enough, there's a book on my "to read" shelf called "Jesus and the Feminists" that I keep wanting to read even if just to say that I read a book by that title. So that's to say...SURE! I'll read it! It'd be fun to see you anyway...